You may be struck today by a romantic mood that leaves you feeling smitten and intensely affectionate. Since your heart is likely filled with feelings of undifferentiated tenderness, you may find yourself viewing your world through rose-colored glasses. An idealistic fog of high expectations can influence your perception of your loved ones, colleagues, and peers. While this idealism can help you see the best in everyone, it may also cause you to assume that the behavior of others will conform to your utmost expectations. To avoid disappointment today, take a few moments to ground yourself and reaffirm that the people in your life are individuals with unique beliefs, goals, and attitudes toward life.
Since we invest ourselves in our relationships, considering the bonds we share with others from a realistic perspective protects us from the hurt that comes from unmet expectations. Many people regard their relationships idealistically, ascribing romanticized traits and behavioral habits to their loved ones and associates, and are disappointed when reality fails to live up to their preconceptions. When we are willing to honestly assess the ties that bind us to the individuals we care for and esteem, we can revel in the joyous, nuanced realities of our connections. Likewise, we can bear witness to the evolution and personal growth of the people who play important roles in our lives. Adopting a realistic viewpoint where your relationships are concerned today will help you enjoy others for who they are, not who you expect them to be.
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