You may feel that the people in your environment are exerting undue influence upon you today and that these individuals are subsequently directing the course of your choices or actions without your full consent. This susceptibility is likely related to a lack of confidence on your part rather than on any particular power on the part of your peers. Though you may feel compelled to hear others' opinions and ideas today, you can still stamp out your suggestibility by taking some time to mull these over. A notion that seems compelling at first can turn out to be quite empty of substance upon further examination.
We can avoid falling under the influence of individuals whose ideas and opinions we disagree with by taking a moment to collect our thoughts when we feel we are being pressured. It may seem that there are a number of nefarious forces directing the course our lives take. Yet only a few short minutes of focused contemplation in which we examine the roots of the vulnerability we feel can help us reconnect with our core values and remind us that we are and always will be in full control of our destinies. When we stop to think before we are swept up in the tide of outside beliefs and opinions, we temporarily separate ourselves from the suggestions capable of swaying us and thus our overall susceptibility is diminished. The impressions others make on you today will not be as intense when you center yourself in the midst of challenging interpersonal interactions.
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