When we spend all of our time complaining, we are in constant “destroy” mode, instead of “building” mode. We all know someone who has elevated the process of complaining to a high art. Sometimes funny, sometimes exhausting, these people have the ability to find a problem just about anywhere. In its more evolved form, complaining is simply the ability to see what’s not working, in one’s own life or in the external world, and it can be quite useful if followed to its natural conclusion — finding a solution and applying it. However, many of us don’t get that far, and we find that complaining has become an end in itself. In small doses, this is not a big problem, but if complaining has become a huge part of our identities, it may be time to take a good look at how we are spending our energy. Complaining is a person’s way of acknowledging that they are not happy with the way things are. In a metaphorical way, when we complain or criticize, we are tearing down an undesirable structure in order to make room for something new. But if all we do is tear down, never bothering to summon the creative energy required to create something new, we are not fulfilling the process. In fact, we are at risk of becoming a stagnant and destructive force in our own lives and in the lives of the people we love. Another issue with complaining is that we sometimes tend to focus on other people, whom we can’t change, as a way of deflecting attention from the one person we can change — ourselves. So transforming complaining into something useful is a twofold process that begins with turning our critical eye to look at things we can actually do something about and then taking positive action. When we find ourselves complaining, the last thing we need to do is get down on ourselves. Instead, we can begin by noticing that we are in the mode of wanting to make some changes. But rather than lashing out at somebody or an organization, we can look for an appropriate place to channel this energy — not our neighbor’s house but possibly parts of our own. Finally, we can ask ourselves the positive question: What would I like to create in the place of whatever it is I want to tear down? When we do this, we channel a negative habit into a creative process, thus using our energy to change the world around us in a positive way. |
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The desire to love and be loved, to belong, and to feel valued is universal. So what gets in the way of experiencing this for ourselves? Our toxic emotions and negative belief patterns. But you can free yourself. In this 14-lesson course, author and intuitive transpersonal healer Leah Guy will teach you how to build a new sense of confidence, create healthy boundaries, and reprogram the unsupportive stories you tell yourself. With this course, you will get: |
- 14 lessons that will teach you how to truly fall in love with who you are.
- Symptoms checklists to identify the root cause of your emotional blocks.
- Daily self-care exercises centered on opening the heart to self-love that will get you unstuck in relationship patterns.
- Lessons to help create healthy boundaries.
- Powerful guided meditations to release emotion & tap into a deep well of love.
- Tips for rebalancing your energy centers to support new patterns, including essential oils, affirmations, herbs, and other tools.
- Inspirational videos offering deeper understanding and emotional support to help you create a life that is whole, kind, and happy.
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"I left the course changed. Lighter — more aware — engaged once again in my spiritual growth. I'm eternally grateful." — Gina "One of the most profound experiences I've had." — Bex "I immediately felt a calming change in me. Gradually, I started feeling much lighter, less stressed, and I now practice mindful awareness in my daily life. I am more connected spiritually than I ever have been." — Amanda |
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Starting today, you will receive all 14 of your lessons. Each lesson is yours to keep and you'll be able to refer back to it whenever you want. If you miss a lesson or are too busy to get to it, each lesson will conveniently remain in your account so you won't have to search for it when you're ready to get back to it. |
We are offering this course with the option of selecting how much you want to pay. No matter how much you pay, you'll be getting the same course as everybody else. We simply trust that people are honest and will support the author of the course with whatever they can afford. And if you are not 100% satisfied, we will refund your money. |
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| How Much Do You Want To Pay? $19$35$55 This is the total amount for all 14 lessons |
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Most of us weren't taught how to truly love ourselves. We were taught how to be nice to, not lie to, and to be respectful of others. But what about being kind and compassionate with ourselves? In this course, spiritual teacher and healer Leah Guy will teach you how to free yourself from the grips of insecurities, self-loathing, and guilt. You'll receive daily self-care exercises, powerful healing meditations, and deep emotional support to help you create boundaries, build confidence, and get unstuck in relationship patterns, all while reigniting your passion and sense of self. |
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There's something for everyone. What do you want to learn today? |
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