Today, you may find it difficult to come to agreements with rivals when interpersonal matters are involved. You likely feel that others' needs are as important as your own, so your response to conflict may be indecisive at best. You cannot, however, avoid conflict by vacillating between positions in an unpredictable fashion, as this will likely do nothing to help you gain the trust of those whose desires differ from your own. To come to a mutually beneficial agreement today, you may first have to define your position in clear and concrete terms. Once you have shown others that you are committed, your negotiations will likely be vastly more successful.

Though we should always allow ourselves the freedom to change our minds, we must also respect the right of those affected by our decisions to take an interest in our larger purpose. When our wants or needs are at odds with those of another, we may find ourselves vacillating as we struggle to negotiate a compromise. Our uncertainty can then have a disconcerting effect on our adversary, as they will likely begin to regard us as unpredictable or flighty. We can ensure that conflict resolution is not hindered by indecision by thinking carefully about what we hope to achieve and making a firm decision in accordance with those goals. An eventual conciliation will unfold more smoothly as a result of our decisiveness. You will feel good about the choices you make today when you believe in the path you have chosen to walk.