Every relationship has its own timeline, its own purpose and its own lessons to teach. Even the most difficult relationships exist to help us learn and grow.

Dear Friends,

Thank you for your feedback about enjoying these interviews. I have to admit it is fun to talk with people about their work, especially after being immersed in my own work for so long! Today I'm talking with Lissa Coffey about her course Finding Peace When Relationships Change. We are all in a relationship, whether it be with our self, a friend, or a romantic partner. I have the honor of being friends with Lissa, and she is the real deal, a lovely human who walks her talk. Let's dive right in and see what Lissa has to say.

Course Overview

People come and go from our lives, whether by choice or by circumstance. How we cope with these events affects how we move forward, how we see the world and how we feel about our own lives. This course is a practical and spiritual guide for how to navigate through the pain that comes from what we see as the end of a relationship. Whether it is a divorce, a death, a move or some other change, we find ourselves trying to make sense of it all. We have a deep, urgent need for closure. This course is for anyone who needs to find that ever-elusive peace of mind right now.

  • Receive one lesson every day for 11 days (11 lessons total).
  • Have lifetime access to the course for reference whenever you want.
  • Select the amount you can afford, and get the same course as everyone.
  • If you are not 100% satisfied, you may request a refund.

How much do you want to pay?

$15$35$50

This is the total amount for all 11 lessons



Interview With Lissa Coffey

Madisyn Taylor: Hi Lissa! What do you mean by the title of this course, Finding Peace When Relationships Change?

Lissa Coffey: If we start with the premise that we're all connected, then we are always connected, even before we enter into a relationship. And if we're all connected, then a relationship doesn't end but it can change. Sometimes this change is something we don't expect or don't want. It can be upsetting and cause heartache. We might try to analyze the cause, blame ourselves, stress out, or lose sleep. We might even try to fight the change. At a certain point we realize that we need to come to terms with all that has happened, and we seek peace. It can be a challenge, but we need to find that peace in order to move forward.

MT: How does somebody know when a relationship needs to change, simply ebb and flow, or dissolve?

LC: Change is inevitable in this universe. Everything is in flux. Often, we don't even notice when a relationship is changing. We look back and realize it changed when we weren't paying attention. The law of relationship says that we are here to help each other learn and grow. If we're in a relationship where we are feeling held back, burdened, abandoned, then those are all signs that something has changed or needs to change within the relationship.

MT: I'm a big lover of spiritual tools and having a large toolbox! What types of tools do you offer in this course?

LC: I feel the same way! So many books and courses are all about theory, and I didn't want this course to be like that. When I was going through the process of finding peace when a relationship changed, I needed things to actually do. I've included many practical, healing, beneficial actions to take so that you can really see and feel the progress you're making along the way. There are tools to help clear the body since the body can hold emotions that act like toxins. There are tools to help clear the mind, which can get stuck in perseverating thoughts. There are tools to help clear your space because your environment holds energy the same way that your body does.

MT: I believe that the most important relationship we will ever have is with our self. Lesson 11 teaches about reconnection with self, the only thing that never changes. Why is this important?

LC: Life is all about relationships, and our first relationship is with the self. We tend to forget this. We tend to look outside of ourselves for validation, happiness, companionship, or whatever. The truth is that we are whole and complete just as we are, where we are. We need to really prioritize this relationship with the self and nurture it so that we can express ourselves fully and see that everything that happens in our life has a purpose.

MT: You teach about learning the anatomy of a relationship. What do you mean by this?

LC: Each relationship has an "anatomy" to it, and you can clearly see from experience that some relationships are fleeting while others are long-lasting, depending on how we are meant to help each other learn and grow. A relationship is really a living, breathing, functional thing, very much like a body. When we know how a relationship is established, and what agreements are in place, it helps us see the purpose that is in any given relationship.

MT: Why are relationships so hard? Do all relationships need maintenance?

LC: Not all relationships are hard, but we tend to learn the most from the ones that are! Every relationship is different. Every relationship has its own timeline, its own purpose, its own lessons that come with it. We have a kind of spiritual agreement with certain people in our lives. Some might call it karma. Some relationships are complicated while others are not. But all relationships, in one way or another, help us learn and grow.

MT: In this course you say there are five stages of closure. Is this closure for when a relationship ends? Tell me about these stages and what students will learn.

LC: Closure is resolution when a relationship seems to end. It's tying up any loose ends. It's replacing resentment or anger or any ill feelings with gratitude. It's that feeling that there are no unanswered questions and you've learned from the experience and are a better person for it. We know we have closure when we have gratitude for all of it, no matter what has happened.

There is a five-stage process to closure that helps us find peace: recognition, acceptance, understanding, integration, and gratitude. As we move through these stages, we get more clarity and strength. Our relationships are like a chain. The links in it are all the experiences and memories shared, marking the time that has gone by. When a relationship changes, it's like that chain is left dangling. We don't know what to do with it. Closure is like that little clasp at the end of the chain that brings us full circle, back to ourselves. It turns that chain into something useful and purposeful and beautiful that we can carry with us and refer to.

MT: Tell me about some feedback you have received from students.

LC: I've heard from people who have lost loved ones say that they went through all the stages of grief, but they never really found peace until they went through all the stages of closure. I've heard from people who had bitter divorces say that they were finally able to let go of all the pain and resentment and find themselves again. And I've heard from so many people who say that they can now put things in perspective and see how the experience of their relationship change helped them grow in wisdom.

MT: This course offers some bonus materials. What are they?

LC: I've included a bunch of great affirmations. These are so helpful to keep us on track, to keep the mind from getting stuck in that downward spiral that gets us feeling so lost. They are great reminders to use throughout the day, especially in times when you feel like you're struggling. I also wrote a special prayer that helps us to release and let go of the accumulated "gunk" that tends to stick to us when we feel we've been wronged or hurt. And there are bonus videos too.

MT: Thank you, Lissa, for taking the time to chat with me about relationships today.

How Does It Work?

Starting today, you will receive a new lesson every day for 11 days (total of 11 lessons). Each lesson is yours to keep and you'll be able to refer back to it whenever you want. And if you miss a lesson or are too busy to get to it that day, each lesson will conveniently remain in your account so you won't have to search for it when you're ready to get back to it.


Get Started Now

We are offering this course with the option of selecting how much you want to pay. No matter how much you pay, you'll be getting the same course as everybody else. We simply trust that people are honest and will support the author of the course with whatever they can afford. And if you are not 100% satisfied, we will refund your money.


How much do you want to pay?

$15$35$50

This is the total amount for all 11 lessons


More than 14,000 people have taken Lissa's course, improving their relationships across the board and making the world a better place to be. Thank you, Lissa, for being my friend and thank you to my readers for all of your support.

Be well,

Madisyn Taylor
Cofounder, Editor-in-Chief
DailyOM