The power of your charm might win others over today, which may make you feel captivating. Using your appeal to get the things you want might make it seem as if you have control over others, but your magnetism coupled with an ability to listen to people could be the reason why you are able to effectively influence people. Listening carefully to others by using several of your senses may increase the amount of charisma you exude today. As you interact with others, you might want to listen not only to their words but also to the cadence of their speech and their intonation. Also, look at their body language and facial expressions to glean additional information about their true feelings. Being able to read others in this way can contribute to their perception that you are available to them due to your awareness of their needs.

Charisma is only useful if we are conscientious about the people and environments around us. Relying solely on our personality can be risky, for we are more apt to put our own needs before those of others. If we train ourselves to be more attentive to the external signals of others, however, we can use the appealing aspects of our personality to better persuade and influence them. Charm, after all, is about understanding how to best meet the wishes of others. By understanding the true nature of your appeal and learning how to use it in a positive way today, others will be willing to listen to and accept your ideas.