Some have not witnessed a loving relationship between their parents, so they don't know what it looks like.
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Loving and committing to another person is a spiritual process — whether it involves a wedding or any other type of commitment ceremony. Often when we enter into a relationship, we allow our emotions to lead us forward without thinking more deeply about what true commitment involves. If we can understand that sharing our lives with another person is not just based on love but also on the hard work of being able to compromise and enter into a dialogue with them, then we are much more likely to have a successful relationship with our partners. Some have not witnessed a loving relationship between their own parents, and therefore, have no role model of what love should feel like or look like. Many of us have been exposed to the idea that love should be romantic and sweep us off our feet. While this is a natural part of any relationship, the true test of our love comes from our willingness to explore this world with another person — to not only share in the delights that we encounter but also to negotiate the bumps in the road together. This often takes the form of a mutual exchange of ideas, but because any relationship is based on the needs and experiences of two people, we also might face a certain amount of misunderstanding. Learning to be open and receptive to our partners and to treat their wants and ideas with respect can help us navigate even the most difficult situations. One way to do this is to take a deep breath, holding our partner in a space of love, and allow ourselves to listen fully with our hearts to what they have to say. Should this become difficult to do, we also can turn toward people whose relationships we admire for advice or guidance. Knowing that there are resources out there to help us and exploring them with our partner will deepen and strengthen our relationship. Entering into a committed relationship is in fact a spiritual journey that we undertake with another person. By being able to love and care for someone else with an open heart, we will find that we can reach a greater level of personal transformation, evolving along our path and learning powerful lessons about ourselves that we might not otherwise be able to do on our own. | ❁ Did you miss yesterday's inspiration? Click here to view them all. |
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We all long to experience the beauty of love, yet it's easy to feel frustrated when our relationships don't unfold the way we hoped. In this uplifting course, psychotherapist Rhonda Findling gently guides you to uncover the hidden patterns that may be holding you back from the intimacy you crave. With reflection exercises, journaling prompts, and simple but powerful action steps, you'll learn how to shift old behaviors, soothe difficult emotions, and connect more deeply with yourself and others. Along the way, you'll gain insights into why you may be drawn to unavailable partners, discover how to break free from limiting "types," and cultivate habits that create passion, trust, and joy. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this journey will help you open your heart and welcome the fulfilling love you truly deserve. Start today. |
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