Be aware of giving from a desire to feel good about ourselves, rather than from a place of connection to all people.
When we see a person in need, we may want to give them something as a way of helping them, but if we give without taking the time to see who they really are, honoring that most of all, our gift is nowhere near as powerful as it could be. We may want to give a homeless person a sandwich, for example, but if we give it without also taking a moment to look the person in the eye, making authentic contact, we rob them of the experience of being human.
Being in a position of need leaves a lot of people feeling vulnerable and full of self-doubt. The greatest gift we can give is to meet people in need without judgment and with the awareness that we are not superior to them simply because we are not currently in their position. If we take the long view, we can see that we all began life in need of a lot of care and attention, and many of us end life in the same way. Giving and receiving are companion energies that take turns throughout our lives, and we all get a chance to be on both sides of the exchange from time to time.
It's important to be aware of our own tendency to give from a desire to feel good about ourselves, rather than from an acknowledgement of our connection to all people. Letting go of our self-importance allows us to see that, regardless of appearances, we are all givers and receivers. When we are in the position of the giver, we honor those we are helping when we remember the many people who have helped us. Then we can look the person we are helping in the eye, aware that we are making contact with a human being who is our equal.
Do you find it difficult to speak your truth to the one you love? Do you often censor your true feelings and real Self so you do not hurt someone else? Or, do you find yourself fearful, resentful and wanting to control and manipulate a situation so someone (or everyone) will feel better? Are you ready for your own space? Would you prefer to love deeply, be real, speak your truth, understand why you predictably attract certain people and reactions in loving relationships? Are you ready to experience deep intimacy and love without all that responsibility? This 49 Day course contains daily teachings, mind intervention practice videos, and assignments to help you become the master of enlightened relationship! By following, learning and mind imprinting the 49 Principles in this course, you will move past your fear of being real and experience the conscious evolution of love, which includes deep integration of the universal spiritual principles of relationship attraction and being! !
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