We cannot insist that someone else take responsibility for their actions; only they can make that choice when they are ready.
As we begin to truly understand that the world outside of us is a reflection of the world inside of us, we may feel confused about who is to blame for the problems in our lives. If we had a difficult childhood, we may wonder how we can take responsibility for that, and in our current relationships, the same question arises. We all know that blaming others is the opposite of taking responsibility, but we may not understand how to take responsibility for things that we don't truly feel responsible for. We may blame our parents for our low self-esteem, and we may blame our current partner for exacerbating it with their unconscious behavior. Objectively, this seems to make sense. After all, it is not our fault if our parents were irresponsible or unkind, and we are not to blame for our partner's bad behavior.
Perhaps the problem lies with the activity of blaming. Whether we blame others or blame ourselves, there is something aggressive and unkind about it. It sets up a situation in which it becomes difficult to move forward under the burdensome feelings of shame and guilt that arise. It also puts the resolution of our pain in the hands of someone other than us. Ultimately, we cannot insist that someone else take responsibility for their actions; only they can make that choice when they are ready. In the meantime, if we want to move forward with our lives instead of waiting around for something that may or may not happen, we begin to see the wisdom of taking the situation into our own hands.
We do this by forgiving our parents, even if they have not asked for our forgiveness, so that we can be free. We end the abusive relationship with our partner, who may never admit to any wrongdoing, because we are willing to take responsibility for how we are treated. In short, we love ourselves as we want to be loved and create the life we know we deserve. We leave the resolution of the wrongs committed against us in the hands of the universe, releasing ourselves to live a life free of blame.
In this course, international inspirational expert, author and intuitive Ellen Whitehurst transforms the meaning of romance, relationships and, yes, everlasting love, from an idea or an intention into a real experience and a solid, satisfying lifestyle. Based on her more than 20 years of experience in teaching secrets and shortcuts, tips and techniques from all different empowering walks of life, Ellen culls from these time tested traditions and then takes you by the hand and walks you down the path to your most fulfilling love life ever. She shares ways in which you can sit back and attract true and lasting love, happiness, peace and joy. In this course you will be given the opportunity to tap into the incredible power of specifically chosen words and affirmations that will activate your intentions to find true love now. Ellen also offers life-altering and totally transformational writing exercises that will allow your relationship with yourself as well as with others to be! come more fulfilling, happier, healthier and, of course, much more loving. Clear away all obstacles, attract the relationship of your dreams and find your true love all in just 27 days.
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